Happiness is the aftertaste of pain

Happiness is the aftertaste of pain, and happiness is the sublimation of pain...——Inscription

Happiness is what everyone wants, and pain is what everyone fears. Everyone behaves very differently in front of the two. But now I want to ask you——friend, when you face love and cruelty, joy and sorrow, do you do the same? If yes, can you really understand the meaning of the word "happiness"? Can you really feel, can you see the traces of pain covered up behind the happiness?

In fact, they are like light and shadow, always inseparable. So we suffer pain, but at the same time enjoy happiness.

All the stalwart figures I have seen in ancient and modern China and abroad. On the one hand, they present a figure of loneliness and pain, but on the other hand, they radiate optimism, calmness, and strength, enjoying the pleasures of the world alone.

Poet Saint Du Fu, you are destined to live for poetry and to show your strong patriotism. Your patriotic enthusiasm splashed like magma, and with a pen full of passion, you swayed your praise of nature and the beautiful praise of the great rivers and mountains of the motherland. However, the dark society and the corruption of the government have caused frequent wars and turmoil in the country, and people are panicking. Seeing all this, you feel extremely indignant and sympathetic to the soldiers who went to the front line of the battlefield; "The beacon fire lasts for three months, and the family letter is worth ten thousand gold. The white hair is shorter and shorter, and you can't hold your hairpin." Yes, war is so cruel. , You are suffering because of this, worrying about the fate of the country... You did not leave the court like Li Bai, and you have been on the road of wandering since then. Instead, burn the fire of enthusiasm in my heart even more violently, for the country and the people, at the expense of myself. Finally, "Wearing that the officers and soldiers took over Henan and Hebei", you are immersed in the joy of "the clothes are full of tears when you hear about it", which triggers the frenzy of "Manjuan Poems and Books of Joy and Crazy" and "Singing during the day requires excessive drinking, youthful company is good for returning home .” The passion of…

Du Fu, at this moment you are happy, "painful" and happy.

Helen, you are strong, and your indomitable spirit is convincing and amazes the whole world, which also makes you destined to become the darling of the light and born for love. But God ruthlessly took away your moving eyes and hearing, and plunged you into a dark, hopeless abyss, like a lost child running aimlessly in the forest, looking for light. At this time, you are suffering and troubled, but all this is short-lived, and everything will pass. Your slender body and gentle face are full of extraordinary wisdom and unyielding philosophy of life. So you stood up and fought for your life, gradually becoming taller. With your tenacious belief and unyielding spirit, you lifted all the darkness and soared freely in the paradise of words. Open a window of the soul from the heart, let it bring you closer to life, to the sun, to feel the sun...

Happiness, in fact, you have experienced pain while enjoying happiness. How can there be happiness without pain? If there is bitterness in a person's life, there must be sweetness, when there is gathering, there must be separation, when there is joy, there must be sorrow. This is a real life experience and a symphony that inspires life. Let us face up to the pain and enjoy the happiness, which is one of the great pleasures in life.